We’re having dinner tonight, I ask Mona if she’d like to order delivery in or go out. Her response is “whatever you want is fine.”
This is not the first time she’s said that. By far. Mona is not the first woman to say this to me. By far.
Is it because they like to please?
Is it because, in their minds, men should make plans?
Is it because they can’t make up their minds?
Is there another choice I’m not seeing?
I’m not beyond having my own ideas. Sometimes I suggest them first, sometimes I ask her. But I’ll always be ready with an idea if (when) she puts the ball back in my court.
And after that, it’s a negotiation anyway. So why not have any ideas upon first being asked, ladies?